Writers like me celebrates this, our 100th post. Yeah, us! We hope at least one of our posts has brought a smile to your face, a “umm” to your thoughts, and a sparkle to your writing. We’ve enjoyed finding content for you (okay, sometimes it’s been soul-sucking, but that’s the writing life – feast or famine.)
On to Dr. Oz and how he inspired today’s post. Bear with me, there are a few twists.
The esteemed doctor, he of “Oprah” and “The Dr. Oz Show” and the “You” books (“You on a Diet”, etc) graces the cover of “for women First” magazine this week. It’s not on my list of reading material, but DH, in his zest to “explain” how healthy he is and “diagnose” my ills, pointed out the cover story – “Dr. Oz’s Thyroid Cure.” I’m not sure I qualify for the cure, but I’m willing to up my Vitamin D, steam my veggies and lay off the iodine if it means temporary marital harmony.
Among the other articles (How to save a soaked cell phone! Incontinence remedies! Bloat busting salad dressings! – who are these readers, anyway, they have way too many problems) is the body language quiz on pages 112-113. It consists of photos of six celebrity photos and asks the question – is he possessive or protective?
Genius. As they say in the writing business, everything is research, and this is genius. Here are prime examples we can use in our writing. There are many ways to write body language and show whether your characters are in conflict or harmony.
On the “He’s possessive” examples, we can use:
- The man holding the woman tightly from behind, declaring “she’s mine.”
- In the same posture, pulling her backward and off balance, forcing her to hang on.
- Tightly clasping an arm around her neck in a controlling gesture,his hand blocking her heart and throat, indicating he’s restricting her.
- Not surveying the surroundings in an effort to protect her.
On the “He’s protective” examples, we can use:
- The man turning toward the woman with his hand up (in this case, on his chin) creates a barrier and makes her feel safe.
- A free hand that’s open with curled fingers, a sign of alertness, and easily formed into a fist to defend her.
- A hand on her back to gently guide her.
- Resting his hand at the top of her shoulders, reassuring but allowing her freedom of movement.
- Leaving the chest open and exposed indicates a powerful protector.
I’ll be back later this week to explore more differences between the sexes.
Stay safe until then,
Cheryl











